Toy reviews from a Retailer!

I love the idea of a place women can go to discuss and recommend toys and props, etc. That’s why I got into the business I’m in: I sell toys. Therefore, I have TONS of suggestion, I’ll get to those...

I just think it’s so important that women learn more about their bodies, as early as possible. I did a party recently for 40+ year old women who didn’t know how to find their G-spots. I don’t want that to be my friends. It’s important that we stop making sex and talking about it so taboo. Don’t even get me started on sex education! So I decided to do what I could now by doing these parties and reaching out to women - providing the tools to help them learn more about their own sexuality. (I’m also going to get my Masters in Nursing so I can do this stuff in clinics and schools, etc.)

My link is on the right-side column - Thanks site-creator for linking me!

NOW- big disclaimer: the site/catalogs can be sort of heterosexist (and couple-ist) if you ask me. If you come to my parties, you’d hear all about this: toy ideas for all sorts of SINGLES and couples. SO, if you have questions about anything - just post a comment - we can talk about them! (Another disclaimer: I do apologize that my site is not more up-to-date with my personal info. I’m working on it! Essentials are all there.) And, just for reading this blog, when you purchase anything from my website, type in “FDF” (for First Date Fiascoes) in the promotions box to get 15% off your entire order. Some incentive to at least check it out…

My favorites...

So my favorite toy to recommend to most women is the Aqua Osaki (rating A-…nothing is perfect! Always can grow in my opinion, so this is high for me….): (http://yourpassionconsultant.com/consultants/caitlink/passiontoys01.php) you need to see a video of this in action- when it is off, you can bend the shaft to change the diameter of the circle it rotates in, from small little circles, to rather LARGE circles. It’s cool. PLUS, it’s water-proof! (Showers make great cover sounds for those of us who have roommates or children or the like…) And, it’s reasonably priced. Its sister, "Jelly O" (rating B) is also great, but not waterproof and not as many variable speed (2 for shaft, 2 for bullet attachment versus AquaO’s 3 and 3).

When want something fancier, it depends on preference. When I'm doing a party, I like to talk to women about it. Beads or no beads? (I’m a fan.) Do you want something waterproof? How long? What diameter are you thinking of? It's always fair when a person doesn't know, too - I've got options for those women, as well.

We just started selling “Charlotte’s Rabbit” from Sex in the City. It's called the Cosmo Bunny! YEAH! http://yourpassionconsultant.com/consultants/caitlink/deluxetoys01.php (rating A).

For the woman looking for externals in the note above, another fun option is just the bullet and then getting a sleeve attachment (price-wise those are often great options). The Pink Pineapple from our website seems to be popular. But the links from the previous posts look great. I don’t have those… yet!

Props? My favorite (and I’m not sure it’s really a prop so much as an addition to the night) are the edible massage candles (Tasty Temptations…Rating A-). That’s right. It’s a candle (smells nice) that melts into a WARM oil (not scalding hot, promise), that is then drizzled over the partner for a massage. When you are later kiss/licking/nibbling, it tastes yummy too! http://yourpassionconsultant.com/consultants/caitlink/massage01.php (top candle) there are also very nice soy versions which are a little bigger in size, but not edible. Nice scents there…

I could go on for hours- it’s my job and I love it. So, please, lets talk! You can always email me… but here, we can all learn from each other. Can’t wait! Thanks site-creators. This is wonderful!

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Welcome!

In a recent email, a close friend wrote the following after hearing about a special birthday present I bought myself:

What new toy did you order? This is my latest one (30th b-day gift, so it's kinda old now) but mine's green. So far, it's one of my faves, but what I'm REALLY looking for is some sort of external stimulator, like a bullet . . . so if you have any suggestions? Ha! Is this TMI? I don't ever know. Hopefully [the other (male) friend in on the email chain] will have stopped reading this after the second sentence. Anyway . . . *crickets chirping* . . . I should go cook dinner now. Bye!

Which prompted me to respond with:

Your new one is so so cute!!! I looked at that one. This is my new one. Though I certainly didn't pay that much for it. I ordered from Amazon.com because they had it for $60. Bargain!! It's rechargeable, which I'm curious and excited about. I figure at the end of it's life, it'll be a pain, but until then - hopefully - it'll be great.

I have the BEST outtie. I recommend it to everyone (after it was recommended to me by a friend who has lost hers twice now). This is it. It isn't super cheap and uses AAA batteries, but I love it... as do a few friends of mine. One of my friends' boyfriends loves it, too...

This one is also good. I loved it for a long time... until it broke. The one I mentioned above is pretty indestructible, unlike this one.

Which got us chatting about how great it would be if we could network with other women who are comfortable discussing things like this - to find out where they shop, what they buy, what works and what doesn't, where the best deals are, etc. etc.

So here we are. Welcome!!